It is not worth responding to this nonsense, but I'm really trying to understand. Why do you think he owes you anything? And do you really imagine that he has some magic answer that he can share that will let the rest of us "beat the system"? You sound like a whiny, spoiled child. (And, I'm guessing that, no, he really doesn't feel stupid.) You are a perfect example of the welfare state mentality. It's someone else's responsibility to take care of your needs and make it better, right? You are jealous of what someone else has and, despite that person spending inordinate amounts of time and money working to fix the system, you criticize him because he has what you are unable to obtain,
Let me help you out. Here is how you can beat the system: 1) Allocate $50,000 or so and hire a real lawyer (not one of the freebies from ANJRPC) to help you navigate the permit process and grease the skids. Don't have that kind of cash? Ok, build a successful business or go back to school and get your GED and a college degree. 2) Make some serious political and or business connections, through some combination of large political donations, charity and community work, and sheer force of personality. It might help to have some colorable claim that you meet the justifiable need standard. Not currently in the cards? Well, put down the Xbox controller, get out of your parents' basement, and get to work, 3) Get lucky.
There, simple isn't it? In the meantime, buy yourself a giant tube if Vagisil and try to relax.