I've enjoyed your posts... and I'm sorry that we never got to meet in person. I hope that you will continue to check in with us regularly, as others have, from your new post in Free America!
I'm genuinely happy for you and your wife. There's no reason for anyone to feel guilty leaving this state... people getting close to retirement age in particular. Gun laws and related freedoms may be top of mind for us enthusiasts, but it's only one small slice of the decision process. The high expenses in NJ have driven people out of this state for many years now. We all know that. And remarkably, that seems to be only getting worse - exponentially worse! I've been thinking for a couple of years now that I will certainly not be a NJ retiree. It would just be poor financial planning on my part. Even if it's just skipping over the Delaware River to PA, my 3 biggest living expenses - mortgage payment w/property tax, health insurance, and car insurance - would all drop precipitously. Eventually, a move would pay for itself and then start putting the added savings into my account towards non-working retirement years. The numbers are the numbers. Frankly, any added "freedoms" would just be bonus points.
But, while we're still here, we should be doubling our efforts to fight for our rights! And to @bhunted and others who have left (or are leaving soon), I would caution you not to slip into a sense of false security. Stay actively engaged and keep giving to 2A orgs, both locally and nationally. There is movement of gun control activists - a toxic combination of ignorant, irrational, well-funded, and passionate - and they would love nothing more than to stomp gun rights out of existence across the entire country. Yes, even in Texas, and Tennessee, and New Hampshire, and Arizona, and Florida... and all the other places where some of you have moved. The battle is just heating up. Don't stick your heads in the sand.