This is a fun thread topic. As a dedicated carnivore, part of my travels for business and pleasure have allowed me the good fortune to be able to enjoy dining at some excellent and memorable restaurants, made even better if my firm was picking up the meal tab. Visiting project sites with clients during the lengthy construction phase of a project, gave me the chance to scope out some of the better local establishments and see which ones I preferred, returning for a repeat meal, when possible. Yet, over the past 30+ years we have all seen how the quintessential traditional American steak house has taken a back seat in many cities and our culture to themed or destination restaurants, with their obsession with culinary fashion of the moment, unusual, if not bizarre ingredient pairing and flashy minimalist presentations.
There is really nothing wrong with that, but for me, there are times when one gets a hunger craving that nothing will satisfy you but this time-tested menu at a distinguished steakhouse: Start with an attitude-adjusting martini (straight up), followed by a decadent shrimp cocktail appetizer, and for the main event, a perfectly prepared, certified Angus USDA Prime, thick-cut ribeye steak with a simple salt & pepper dry rub, seared on both sides, cooked medium-rare over a hot flame, and served with a side of creamed spinach and baked potato, complimented by a glass or two of an elegant Cabernet Sauvignon or Bordeaux.
The steakhouses that I have dined at around the country, for the most part understand that what really matters is their grilling technique and the ingredient list, which has remained largely unchanged from the 1950’s to present day. The ones that are most memorable to me and which I recommend if you find yourself in those cities, are as follows:
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Sparks Steakhouse
Manhattan, NY
I know… I know… one of the most famous tourist-trap restaurants in NYC and is one of the highest grossing independent restaurants in the U.S. But I have dined there for dinner at least 10 times in the past 30 years and have found it to be consistently top quality for both food and service. My usual order is what I stated above, except I always get their simple salt & pepper dry rubbed prime sirloin steak. Also, my wife and clients enjoy the theatrical changing of the white linen table cloth prior to serving the main course.
Smith & Wollensky
Manhattan, NY
From entertaining clients there over the years, I agree with others who describe S&W at the quintessential New York steakhouse. I have never had a bad cut of beef there, or lamb chop or veal chop, but even more pleasantly surprising is the consistently high-quality of their market-fresh seafood.
Barclay Prime
Philadelphia, PA
They served up a delicious meal starting with oysters on the half shell appetizer, followed by 20 oz, bone-in prime 40-day dry-aged NY Strip, with Kennett Square mushrooms on the side.
The Prime Rib
Washington DC
While this restaurant chain started in Baltimore, MD, it opened up in DC back in the mid-1970’s. It served a large cut of roast prime rib that left a definite good impression.
Morton’s The Steakhouse
Chicago, IL
This is the birthplace of what is now a national chain.
Excellent certified USDA Prime steaks served in an old-world traditional setting. But he parading of the beef around the dining room is a bit gauche for my taste.
Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse
Chicago, IL
Another dining institution that serves grass-fed Australian beef that is wet-aged for a minimum of 75 days. For those who care, their cattle are free range raised, GMO/hormones/antibiotic free.
801 Chophouse KC
Kansas City, MO
They serve a delicious Kansas City Strip Steak, but the Ribeye and Delmonico are not far behind, with black truffle butter on the side.
5A5 Steak Lounge
San Francisco, CA
This is a stylish and contemporary take on the traditional steakhouse. The name comes from the designation of “A5” as the highest grade of beef in the world. They serve 100% Japanese Wagyu beef, along with both American and Australian raised Kobe beef. A good way to try out these hard-to-find treats. I had the 8 oz. A5 Wagyu Ribeye with truffle sauce and shimeji mushrooms, which tastes very different to me compared to USDA certified Angus beef, in an interesting way.
St Elmo's Steak House
Indianapolis, IA
While not inexpensive, their USDA Prime, dry-aged, corn fed Midwest Black Angus beef was absolutely delicious. I splurged and ordered their 32-oz, 60-day dry-aged Tom-A-Hawk Ribeye which was preceded by the jumbo shrimp cocktail with sinus-clearing horseradish sauce. All-in-all, it was a religious experience and one of my favorites!
New Jersey…??? I am still looking to find one…. Root’s Steakhouse in my hometown is very good, but not in the league of those steakhouses listed above, IMHO.