@Cheflife15
At age 33, you are still young enough to start a completely new job in a totally different field or industry, which seems to now be the norm for your generation. It you find out that you enjoy whatever the new job entails, maybe even developing a passion for it, then it could possibly become a new career for you. As others have astutely pointed out, with your current salary and average hours you are working, a job change involving more money for less time working is quite appealing.
I can relate to that scenario since when I was much younger in my 20’s, I also was making less-than-desirable hourly wages and working 60-80 hours a week. The difference between your situation and mine was that at that time, I was not burned out and was passionate about my work in my chosen profession. Yet, like you, in my mid-30’s, I was offered an opportunity in my industry that diverged from the traditional career path that I had gone to school for, but utilized my knowledge and relationships, which also involved potentially a much larger financial reward. I ultimately chose to purse that alternative opportunity and have had no regrets. The change proved to be quite interesting, exposing me to many new and challenging situations and resulted in a significant financial gain, compared to if I had followed through with my original career path.
Understandably, change can be frightening due to so many unknowns. Yet, the rational exercise of weighing the pros and cons, of staying in your current job or leaving, still requires courage to jump into a new and unknown situation, environment and life. From what you have shared with us, makes me think that you may very well welcome and benefit from that change now, as will your growing family. It sounds like you’re meeting this coming Tuesday will be some form of feeling out interview. Remember, job interviews are a two-way street. Your friend’s boss will be interviewing you AND you are interviewing him and the company, since that is your chance to ask him/them all of the important questions that you have and get their answers. This is where the words of Henry Wadsworth Longfellow come to mind: “We judge ourselves by what we feel capable of doing, while others judge us by what we have already done”.
It sounds as if you have established yourself as a talented, industrious, experienced, hard-working individual in a high-pressure environment of the high-end culinary world in the New York City metropolitan region. If, for whatever reason, this new factory opportunity does not work out, you most likely can return to the culinary world in some capacity, if you so desire. By the way, years ago, my company constructed the test kitchens facility at the CIA in Hyde Park, NY, which was a fascinating project. I wish you the best of luck with whatever you ultimately choose to do.
AVB-AMG