The first time? Pointed it out to the poll workers and asked them if they were actually going to let her vote. The answer was yes. There's not much else to be done. Cops won't do anything about it, and not having identifying info means nobody will take it seriously if you complain about it. To make it more fun, they were not, in fact going to let me vote. Despite having been registered to vote since high school, and voting in every election since, I had been removed from the roles and was not in the book. So they forced me to cast a provisional ballot, which is seldom if ever counted. Except when I went to the county clerk's office to sort it out they were of the opinion I was actually registered and on the roles. Thus began a three year saga of getting my voting rights back. This was in Middlesex county by the way, and occurred in the first election after they went to bar codes. I'm beyond not shocked their FOIA/OPRA request came up with lots of fucky goings on there.
During that time I hassled a lot of people and did a lot of digging on how things work. The upshot of it is that the state isn't interested in fixing the problem, even if you approach things as a systemic process issue rather than corruption. And a chunk of this stuff IS first and foremost a process issue, although they very much will try to keep the process a secret.
At the most basic level, if you have been registered to vote, and have moved, you can likely just go to your old polling place and vote again. If you changed counties when you moved, the odds of that goes up. The roles simply aren't maintained well, if at all, and they certainly aren't justified across the state as they should be.
Is this a conspiracy? Probably not. However, it is exploitable, and those who are likely to want to exploit it are in a position to influence if anyone ever actually makes the effort to clean up the roles. Was it designed to be exploitable? Who knows. It's totally feasible it was designed by people who were shitty at their job prior to even dated IT tools that would make such things trivial.
On top of that, the people who could be whistle blowers are the people who are very easily blamed, since what should be happening is actually supposed to be happening. The primary concern of the non partisan bureaucrat is to affirm that they are doing an excellent job and to do that with the least effort made. This is state and federal. They do not want to listen to you unless you have something so well documented and concrete, that their concern shifts from appearing competent and effective to distancing themselves from the guaranteed explosion of shit. The closest I was able to make that happen was getting a clerk who had just told me everything was fine and there was nothing they could do to then turn around and actually fix my problem after showing them I had a stack of documentation that things were in fact not fine and working.
Media does not want to listen to you unless you have done all the homework and possibly not even then if they hold differing political views than those people affected. They certainly aren't interested in digging into suspicious looking stuff to find out if it is incompetence and systemic systems breakdown or corruption.
I had my well documented situation, which nobody wanted to hear about. I eventually found three other people who had the same issue. That's still too small for anyone to care about. This predated social media, so there was no place to go make a stink and find more people to make that number bigger. Hell, it barely overlapped with OPRA existing in NJ. I doubt I'd find the same suspicious stuff now as the vote by mail laws would have negated the need for that mechanism.
And I would suggest fucky stuff is still going on in middlesex. Last election, I had to show ID to vote. Why? The only legal reason to require ID to vote is if my information in the book is incomplete, or I failed to provide acceptable ID when I registered to vote (you'd think that would be handled by just saying no, come back with ID, but hey.... I'm sure the process suits someone's agenda). The thing is... anything that legitimately requires you to show id should force you to cast a provisional ballot in NJ. No provisional ballot.
It was done to tons of people. You could prove it 100%. It'd just be answered with... well the poll workers are all temps they misunderstood the training. Hell they weren't even accepting the very broad and lax set of items that would count as ID. They were insisting on state issued picture id after initially requesting DL.
So what do YOU do about it? And what are your grand ideas for what I should be doing about it?