Ok i am re writing this sinse it appears to have confused a few. I went last week to see the status of my FID app and the lady said she mailed my references out on 7/31 and its now 8/6 and they have not gotten them. So should I go back and ask if she really sent them or just said that to shush me and possibly piss her off and shove my app to the bototm of the pile. Or should i wait another week or so before going back.

You might want to try and shorten it a little more, and clarify exactly what your question is or what you want an opinion on.

Obtaining FID in NJ, patience once must have.

 

Keep bugging them. You'll get it eventually.

Well I went back today. And I explained politely why i was there, and the second I said FID card she immediately snapped back with" do you know how busy i am and how many other people are in front of you" WHatever.... So I told her YOU told me they were mailed last tuesday...she said nothing and pasued and said I will go check your file. Comes back and said they just went out yesterday,same effin story i got last time. So if they dont come in the next few days what should I do?

You can wait, or you can..wait.

 

Pretty much your options are limited.

You can wait, or you can..wait.

 

Pretty much your options are limited.

 

You can wait patiently or wait impatiently.

I have no problem waiting patiently but what I dont like is people lying directly to my face. If she mailed them when she said she did I would not have went back. I know the process takes time.