Why is that

 

you'll find out soon enough

Whatever

My other play is that I tell her that if we need something I wok the OT. if we want something I work the OT. I work the OT to pay for the stuff so stop bothering me.

 

This.

I am blessed then I guess to have the wife I do. She and I quote told me " You can have as many guns as you want as long as I can keep buying shoes." and since she spends her money on shoes and not mine I was 1000% fine with this.