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How to teach a bully a life lesson

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ok since we are all sharing... that fat kid was me all through school. I slimmed a little in college but I was over 200pds from 7th grade on.

 

Freshman year high school, neighborhood girl wants to be a tough chick, hangs with the wrong crowd. For some reason the tough guy of the group takes exception to my friendship with this girl, which the little whoa exploits to make inroads with these older kids. So I have a Junior wrestler/druggie coming after me every day for about a week. I played football, baseball and swam, so it's not like I was a puss... I just looked it. Problem is this guy is tough and I am going to get my rear handed to me if I do anything. So after a week of taking crap, I just knuckle down and hit him as hard as I can with a left, I am a southpaw, and follow it with as many shots as I can throw. Problem is, it is now on like Donkey Kong and I proceed to get the butt kicking of a lifetime. He has some serious damage to his right eye, but I am trying to find my nose somewhere near my ear and focus with my right eye, while I clean the dirt out of my mouth from where my face was ground into the earth.

 

Well, this kid stops beating on me, stands up then helps me up and says "Your all right chubbs. We going to be friends." Off we went and got cleaned up at the 7-11 and from that point forward we were friends. Right up to the point when he got caught stealing cars.

 

Bullies just need to either be shown that they are the pusses... or that you will not be one either. Sometimes you got to take a beating. Last on of my life because of some things I learned from that guy, Ron Stray.

by the way... you got to give it to the big kid... he moved fast when the little one made the mistake and got in too close.

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I was always told by my parents "never start it, but if something happens make sure you finish it" I'm going to relay that message to my kids.

I was always told by my parents "never start it, but if something happens make sure you finish it"

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I agree with Glenn. Teach kids how to avoid situations in which they might be threatened, defuse/deescalate a situation, and defend themselves without becoming the villain.

 

As a freshman in high school a senior in my woods class broke my work everyday, and did the usual shove me into lockers thing. Eventually he broke one of my friends ribs and dislocated my shoulder, so the next day when he came over to our bench I picked up a 2x4 and said I was going to break his jaw with it if he tried to hit me. He laughed and tried to hit me so I swung it into his face and "ruptured his septum" or something like that. I figured I'd be expelled since my school was quite p***yfied, but when I sat down with the principal they pulled out the kids file and it was at least 1.5" thick. I got a slap on the wrist and he got suspended. It worked out surprisingly well, and I'm still shocked I didn't get kicked out.

 

LMAO, heck I remember growing up in Elizabeth, this happened when I was in grammar school, This kid a grade above me actually picked me up with 2 hands by my arms, like grabbing someone facing them just under the armpits. Well I locked my finger of both hands together and rapped him in the face breaking his nose, blood ll over the place, them things really blead.

 

The next day my parents, his parents are in the principals office and she looks at us. I was about a foot maybe a little bit more shorted then the other kid, and he was also about at least 50LBS heavier than me. The principal looks at him, loots at me and laughs and to make a long story short. Nothing happened to me. Keep in mind this happened in the early 70's and things were just a tad different back then. If that happened today, who know what branch of the Alphabet squads in additions to the local LOE and SWAT team would be involved. :icon_e_biggrin:

 

Harry

Aparently both kids in trouble.. here they are telling this kid not to defend himself just let him kick the **** out of you and we will deal with it later..

 

schools today suck wind..

 

I hope that big kid files charges against both the school and that little bastard and who ever that was videoing them he is in on it too.

I hope that big kid files charges against both the school and that little bastard and who ever that was videoing them he is in on it too.

Word on the rumor mill is that his parents are already filing for a civil suit against the boy.

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and this is where the parents lose me. Civil suit? For what? Everyone learned something. Shake hands and go your seperate ways.

and this is where the parents lose me. Civil suit? For what? Everyone learned something. Shake hands and go your seperate ways.

Harassment? Assault and battery, or similar charge depending on the law? Bullying is a serious problem today. It can lead to a bunch of different problems, even as extreme as suicide and school shootings. It needs to be squashed once and for all.

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i dunno .. i agree its a problem. but this problem is over now. Nothing good can come of getting lawyers involved. Worst people on earth.

 

Any wonder that bullying is a more serious problem now that you cant fight back this day and age?

 

I think we've proven what speak softly but carry a big stick can do. Bring it back and everyone will be fine.

I think we've proven what speak softly but carry a big stick can do. Bring it back and everyone will be fine.

I agree with you. There should be nothing wrong with defending yourself in ANY situation. If a man attacks me while I am taking the trash out, I should not by any means be REQUIRED to run back to my house before defending myself. We should be able to defend ourselves wherever we want, while also being immune from BOTH criminal and civil prosecution, or being suspended from school. I agree with you 100%. Unfortunately, NJ doesn't let me carry a big stick.

i dunno .. i agree its a problem. but this problem is over now. Nothing good can come of getting lawyers involved. Worst people on earth.

Any wonder that bullying is a more serious problem now that you cant fight back this day and age?

 

I think we've proven what speak softly but carry a big stick can do. Bring it back and everyone will be fine.

 

I take exception to that remark. Lawyers are like any other group of people, say for example, gun owners. 99% of them are fine and the 1% that are **** are the ones that get all the publicity and cause problems.

 

That's ok, though. I know people hate lawyers until they need one, and when they do, I'll be there to help. ;)

 

And a fellow Rutgers alum at that!

My pops always taught me, if you really think someone is going to hit you, you better make sure you hit them 1st!

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