See, I think I know what the issue is.

 

The fist 3 years, there were no big dramas and no idiots on the forum.  For the most part, it was shooters introducing other shooters to the forum. We all knew each other and treated others on the forum as we treat others in person.

 

Then... byproduct of the success, we have Internet personalities who do not treat the forum and the members as friends and people they met, they treat them like a random, anonymous person on the internet.  

 

This forum is for shooters in NJ, who have a second place to meet.  It is a place for guests to research and discuss the laws.  

 

The forum was NEVER about:

 

1. stupid drunk posts about what underwear you get.

2. trolling people and getting them riled up.

3. Political bashing.

 

Boring?  Sure.  Respectful?  Absolutely.  

 

If people treat others with disrespect, I don't want to know you, and I don't want you hear.  We all have random moments, but there are certain people for whom it is not one off events, they live and breath drama, and that the world is out to get them. 

 

It has nothing to do with being a boys club.

 

You notice how in person,  gun owners are nice? 

 

Notice how the few people who always complain are people that no one ever actually seemed to meet?

 

Kevin, I find you to be a hypocrite and why it is not a surprise that already 5 people sent me message about you.  So on one hand you say 95% Newark cops are bad.... yet you serve them in your restaurant?  Do you tell them they are bad people in person?  If you don't, then don't say it on the forum.

 

Other thing to keep in mind...We do not read all posts and message.  We have a reporting system.  That means.... when mods get involved, it is because other members found it offensive or wanted someone to take action.

 

What does it mean? It means that if your posts get deleted, look at yourself.  Then... before bitching about it online... "why do so many threads get locked", you send any one of the mods, or myself a pm, and we will be happy to have a discussion with you. You can call us whatever you want, but no one will say that we are disrespectful. 

 

If you cannot participate in a civil matter, like you would have a conversation with a stranger, I suggest you let me know, I will delete your account and you a read as a guest.

 

If you want to be yourself... go do it on facebook or with your drinking buddies. 

you cant deny someone service in a restaurant because you dont like them

you cant deny someone service in a restaurant because you dont like them

You can refuse to accommodate a prevate party. He doesn't feel strongly enough against them to serve them and take their money.

im sure there is some law against denying someone service one way or another, and telling cops in the city you live that you dont like them doesnt seem smart either could make you a target.

im sure there is some law against denying someone service one way or another, and telling cops in the city you live that you dont like them doesnt seem smart either could make you a target.

If there was two cops sitting down for dinner I would agree. agreeing to host a private function is completely discretionary and shows the hypocrisy in his actions. If he hates them so, be a man and refuse their money. Cash is king as it seems.

idk it seems like a slippery slope first its cops then what jews or muslims or blacks or whites etc. i cant see that as right either way.

im sure there is some law against denying someone service one way or another, and telling cops in the city you live that you dont like them doesnt seem smart either could make you a target.

In a place of public accommodation, you can't deny service to a protected class. No protected class is based on employment.

 

 

Sooo.......no more underwear posts?

All parties had been contacted. Closing this for now.