Wow. How would you feel if this guy had been teaching your kids all along?

 

 

http://usnews.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2012/03/01/10549926-calif-teacher-resigns-after-leaving-family-for-student

What a creep

Sickening.

Man, is he going to regret that.

 

That girl is going to be totally different in about 5 years(mentally) and will find someone her own age and strip this loser for every penny she can.

You mean everyone doesn't do that?

Absolutely nuts, don't have any good words I can say here about this.

I don't see the big deal. Is it creepy? yea. But there's no evidence at the moment pointing to him having sexual relations with her as a minor as far as I can see.

 

If thats what they wanna do and it makes them hapy then whatever, they are both consenting adults after all are they not? People leave their wives and kids all the time. Why is this guy worse becuase it was for an 18 year old?

Yeah 41 and 18. Normal. And to make it worse somebody he has supervisory powers over. I will be shocked if sex wasn't involved in the relationship befor now.

accusing someone without proof just beause it seems likely.... that sounds like a flawless plan.

 

 

41 and 18... Thats more normal then you would like to admit these days. What if the sex's had been reversed? think anyone would care?

 

 

 

41 and 18... Thats more normal then you would like to admit these days. What if the sex's had been reversed? think anyone would care?

 

Older woman going after a younger man is a cougar.

Older man going after a younger woman is a pervert.

Exactly.

 

All I see here are 2 consenting adults persuing their desire for happiness. (Didn't someone write about that somewhere?)

 

 

Just becuase john doe see's it as "Immoral" or "sickening" or "creepy" means nothing. They're of course entitled to their opinion. However one would think that a group such as this having their rights denied on a daily basis becuase some people out there feel it to be "wrong" would be more sympothetic to a similar situation.

The issue I have is that he met her while she was a freshman, he was in a position of authority over her, and he decided to start a dating relationship with her. If you honestly believe there was no sexual contact prior to her 18th birthday, I would be shocked.

The issue I have is that he met her while she was a freshman, he was in a position of authority over her, and he decided to start a dating relationship with her. If you honestly believe there was no sexual contact prior to her 18th birthday, I would be shocked.

 

I see where you're coming from, however there's no evidence posted pointing to any of that. Sure its likely...but then again we're all likely to be gun toting nut jobs that want to have a shootout to settle every dispute in the minds of some (or many around these parts).

 

When I was a freshman I knew 80% of the teachers in my school. just becuase they "met" when she was a freshmen doesn't really mean anything other then they've seen eachother in the hall, or maybe he substituted in one of her classes. We really don't know.

I see where you're coming from, however there's no evidence posted pointing to any of that. Sure its likely...but then again we're all likely to be gun toting nut jobs that want to have a shootout to settle every dispute in the minds of some (or many around these parts).

 

When I was a freshman I knew 80% of the teachers in my school. just becuase they "met" when she was a freshmen doesn't really mean anything other then they've seen eachother in the hall, or maybe he substituted in one of her classes. We really don't know.

 

I disagree. I knew what I wanted to do with every girl that I eventually hooked up with the moment I first set eyes on her.

I disagree. I knew what I wanted to do with every girl that I eventually hooked up with the moment I first set eyes on her.

 

I'd agree with that for about 90% of girls. But the're a few girls I know now that are a few years younger then me that I never thought anything of 4-5 years ago. Now they're smoking hot and it almost makes me feel bad about myself...

accusing someone without proof just beause it seems likely.... that sounds like a flawless plan.

 

 

41 and 18... Thats more normal then you would like to admit these days. What if the sex's had been reversed? think anyone would care?

 

 

Maybe in West Virginia and only if it's your sister. Are you serious? Do you really not see the problem here? Do you really think it's becoming a normal trend?

Yeah 41 and 18. Normal. And to make it worse somebody he has supervisory powers over. I will be shocked if sex wasn't involved in the relationship befor now.

 

There was the old saying, What do you do when you old lady turns 40? Trade her for 2 20's.. Was all good until I had a daughter. now it's not so funny.

 

That and I agree, while there is no evidence at this time pointing to inappropriate activities between them prior to her being 18, I'd say there probably was. If not oh well, they are NOW both adults, and he's happy, but let me know how that works out for him in another 5 years.

I have a daughter now too and if this were my kid lets just say the teacher and I would have a long chat in a sealed room

The reason I posted this article was not so much to get your thoughts of a 41-year old moving in with an 18-year old. The goal was to get your thoughts of a 41-year old school teacher moving in with his 18-year old student. In my mind there's a difference. For the most part, I don't care what you do as long as it's legal and not negatively impacting me or those who I care about.

 

This situation, I believe, is different. As others have said, this guy was in a position of authority. This guy is supposed to be preparing these kids for the future, not looking for live-in room mates. Imagine knowing your daughter was in his classes why this guy was scoping-out who he wanted to get with. Pretty f*ckin' sick if you ask me.

I'm surprised this guy threw his whole life away, that's what shocks me the most. Job, Family... all gone... And if he thinks this 18yr old is really gonna stay with him then he's betting on the lottery. I do find the age difference creepy, how does a 41yr old and 18yr old relate to each other?

My opinion would be exactly the same if this was a 41 year old Female teacher and a 18 year old Boy.

 

Something ain't right here.

My opinion would be exactly the same if this was a 41 year old Female teacher and a 18 year old Boy.

 

Something ain't right here.

 

 

Agreed.

Hmm, i had a teacher in high school who was dating an 18 year old girl he was well into his 40,s.. The girl was not from our school Odd thing is he was a new teacher in our school so me and my buddy's assumed they met where he came from which we never did find out..

Older woman going after a younger man is a cougar.

Older man going after a younger woman is a pervert.

 

Older man going after younger man is a Nitanny Lion.

 

Too soon?

Not that I'm advocating this, but if it was good enough for a hardy slap on the back for our 42nd president, then why wouldn't a 41 year old teacher assume that everything wasn't ok with this? Hardy har-har, chuckle, wink wink in the back rooms of the White House with the Ms. Rodham out of town.

 

And as a father of two girls, I'd personally bust his knee caps.

Life will correct itself, in no more then 2 years she'll get tired of mixing up metamucil shakes, and picking up viagra prescriptions. She'll meet a guy in college, and he'll run back to his family crying forgivness. They'll both learn their lessons, and hopefully he doesn't knock her up beforehand.

Not that I'm advocating this, but if it was good enough for a hardy slap on the back for our 42nd president, then why wouldn't a 41 year old teacher assume that everything wasn't ok with this? Hardy har-har, chuckle, wink wink in the back rooms of the White House with the Ms. Rodham out of town.

 

And as a father of two girls, I'd personally bust his knee caps.

 

How do you know Hillary was not their? I assumed she smoked the cigar afterwards!!

Not that I'm advocating this, but if it was good enough for a hardy slap on the back for our 42nd president, then why wouldn't a 41 year old teacher assume that everything wasn't ok with this? Hardy har-har, chuckle, wink wink in the back rooms of the White House with the Ms. Rodham out of town.

 

And as a father of two girls, I'd personally bust his knee caps.

 

 

Assuming your referring to the Clinton incident, that's a totally different story. All he was doing was getting a piece of a** on the side. He didn't quit his job, leave his family, move in with her, etc.

...or begin "courting" her at the age of 13/14

 

Pretty despicable to do. And sort of despicable to compare the two.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Assuming your referring to the Clinton incident, that's a totally different story. All he was doing was getting a piece of a** on the side. He didn't quit his job, leave his family, move in with her, etc.