checko 180 Posted February 9, 2012 As a small female , I have to chime in here. I can't picture a grown person , man or woman , having that much trouble with a .9mm , .40 or .45 cal. , at least not the ones I have shot ..the .357 was fun I thought , and a bit snappy , yes but once you are use to shooting I find absolutely nothing about it that says "too big of a round ". Granted I've never shot a snubnose or anything , just my husband's 6 " 686. When people say things like "start with a .22 or else they'll get scared off of guns" it would lead a woman or smaller guy to believe there is some kind of big recoil out of a .9mm or a say a .45 . Quite frankly , I found my husband's CZ 76 .40 cal to be the easiest to shoot and keep on target , hardly no recoil , and less recoil even than his .9mm PX4. Must be the frame and the ergonomics absorbing the recoil on the CZ ((shrug)) That is kind of what I was trying to say. If you tell people a certain gun is too powerful or too snappy it can lead to a much greater amount of percieved recoil and make them more apt to dislike it even before they try it. Obviously I don't advocate starting someone a magnum caliber or whatever, but I think most adults can handle standard calibers up to a .45. Everyone will have their preferences though. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ray Ray 3,566 Posted February 9, 2012 Damn, this turned into a chick thread. Where's matt6669? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hd2000fxdl 422 Posted February 9, 2012 Damn, this turned into a chick thread. Where's matt6669? Damn and this whole time after reading the thread title I thought it was one.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
checko 180 Posted February 9, 2012 Damn, this turned into a chick thread. Where's matt6669? What's that's supposed to mean???? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ray Ray 3,566 Posted February 9, 2012 What's that's supposed to mean???? He's a little, light in the loafers? jk Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mindy 0 Posted February 10, 2012 Thank you so much for all of the advice! I am going to go back and re read I just wanted to answer a few questions that I can quickly. I am in Gloucester county near Bob's and a few others. I have only handled guns never fired them so If anyone can recommend a good training class I would really appreciate it. I have a few friends with military experience so I was hoping they might help me out, but I would really prefer a class. I know this may sound silly, but I don't think a 22 will be enough gun for me. I am sure they are fun to shoot and the ammo is inexpensive, but I have a feeling if I start there I will be moving on quickly. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Smokin .50 1,907 Posted February 10, 2012 Let me just briefly reiterate what I wrote in my last post: A .22 is a good trainer. I started when I was in High School and I'm the oldest sibling. So Dad bought the K-.22 for us to share. With three kids bangin' away on it, we could go through a brick of ammo in a day at the range! If Mindy tries a .22 revolver (or semi-auto) and finds that she can't see the holes and wants to buy a .357 to shoot .38 spls. out of, fine! If she wants a 9mm or a .40, that's fine too. It is entirely up to her as it's for her to use (and clean). I suggest a good NRA Basic Pistol Class. That will teach her the basics and what a .22 feels like. She can then try something like a .38 or 9mm and decide she wants to start with that size gun. That's one of the benefits of the training course--getting to handle lots of different guns to see what YOU like best. The Instructor supplys the guns to try-out, so it's a win-win! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
civictuner04 6 Posted February 10, 2012 im a member at bobs and have i decent selection of hundgun if you would like to try a few out 2 revolver many small to full size semi autos but no 22s but they can be rented there if interested send me a pm Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
benboga37 2 Posted February 10, 2012 If you can get to a place or have friends with 22lr handguns do try them out but I suggest shoot the 9mm too within the same range outing. I am in fact still squirreling money from the wife to buy a 22lr pistol for my range enjoyment (Beretta Neos ). However if you can only realistically get to the range to practice once every 6 months for a total of 2hrs a year, with a single magazine then ammo cost becomes a moot point. For HD with relatively low ammo cost, low cost pistol , manageable recoil it's really hard to beat a 9mm. Ammo is about $13/50rounds, Ruger p95 with 2 mags for less than $400. Bulk 22lr is about $25/500rounds, pistol will also be between 300-400. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
twitchn1911 1 Posted February 13, 2012 i would recommend looking into either 9mm or .38 as a first pistol for home/self defence. try to shoot as many diferent guns as you can to get a feel for them to help decide which one you like better. also a good pistol class will teach you much about proper handling and safety and will give you a chance to try different guns. good hunting Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diamondd817 828 Posted February 14, 2012 My wife just purcahsed her first handgun. She went with the Glock 19 Gen4 9mm (bought from RTSP). After trying my 22lr, 9mm's, 40's, 45, and 38special/357 revolvers, she went with the 9mm autoloader. She didn't like the heft of the Full Size pistols, or the steel frames. The compact fit her hand much better, and it has a much better weight balance to it. She thought the 22lr was nice to shoot, but for SD purposes it was a little light. The 40 was a little snappy, and the revolvers just eh. 9mm compact turned out to be the best all around weapon for her. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pew Pew Plates 358 Posted February 14, 2012 K frame, 6" barrel .38 special. Light gun, light recoil, perfect balance. Ignore the gun on the top lol, the bottom is a K38, 6" barreled K frame... m14-3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blksheep 466 Posted February 14, 2012 IMHO a 9mm would be suitable. My wife has a Springfield Armory XD Service in 9mm. She shot my Glocks and did not like them or feel comfortable with them. But you have to be comfortable with whatever you plan to buy. She shot Glock, HK, Sig, Beretta and her sisters SA XD 9mm and we went with that. She didnt take any classes, which are a good idea. I have her shoot at usually 15 yards and in and she gets better with every time we go out. In fact our first "day" date was at Shore Shot, and the rest was history. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pizza Bob 1,488 Posted February 14, 2012 My wife shot my Glocks and did not like them or feel comfortable with them. Glad to see someone in your family has some taste 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blksheep 466 Posted February 14, 2012 LOL! I wasnt going to push something on her that she is not comfortable with as I wouldnt with anyone. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tony357 386 Posted February 14, 2012 You are close to PK-90 you should pay him a visit, local FFL.. http://www.colddeadhands.com/ South jersey shooting club which you are also close too, PK-90 may be a member their.. gun for hire is training their.. http://sjerseyshootingclub.com/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
claptrap 0 Posted February 15, 2012 Check out Hagues off 295 they have a bunch of handgun rentals and they have multiple instructional classes you can sign up for (I don't know the costs for them) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
this_is_nascar 162 Posted February 15, 2012 Check out Hagues off 295 they have a bunch of handgun rentals and they have multiple instructional classes you can sign up for (I don't know the costs for them) They actually don't have that many rentals available. Some Sigs, 686's and several other revolvers. I'd say less than 15-different types of guns to rent. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
M4BGRINGO 139 Posted February 15, 2012 686's for rent? There ya go. Bring some wadcutters and you've got an awesome first gun! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
this_is_nascar 162 Posted February 15, 2012 686's for rent? There ya go. Bring some wadcutters and you've got an awesome first gun! You must purchase the ammo from Hague's for the rentals. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ronald Silver 2 Posted February 29, 2012 There's a reason why troops bang the magazines on their helmets before insertion. Buy a 357 revolver & shoot 38 specials all day long. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aliveonbackfeed 0 Posted March 2, 2012 Stay away from light weight revolvers like the S&W 38 Body guard for a first gun. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
echo five foxtrot 1 Posted March 2, 2012 Shoot everything you can. You will find what you like. Take your friends up on their offers to shoot. +1 for a .22, not because you are a girl, or because you are new, but because I think .22's are the most fun. I almost always bring a .22 with what ever else I am shooting. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ronald Silver 2 Posted March 2, 2012 Shoot everything you can. You will find what you like. Take your friends up on their offers to shoot. +1 for a .22, not because you are a girl, or because you are new, but because I think .22's are the most fun. I almost always bring a .22 with what ever else I am shooting. 22LR is fun until the home invasion dude takes it away from you after you unloaded the entire magazine on him..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qel Hoth 33 Posted March 2, 2012 22LR is fun until the home invasion dude takes it away from you after you unloaded the entire magazine on him..... I think 3 families from Ohio would disagree with you. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blksheep 466 Posted March 2, 2012 I think 3 families from Ohio would disagree with you. I dont think that reference is needed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ronald Silver 2 Posted March 2, 2012 I dont think that reference is needed. thanks I didn't mean to be insensitive. She did mentioned home defense. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
colnar 0 Posted March 25, 2012 I am a member at Bob's as well and they have a range of calibers you can rent. They also have offer pistol safety courses you can take. They are not NRA courses, but a good intro and you get to shoot 3 different guns. They are also very helpful and reasonably priced. I have been renting handguns from them to get a handle on what I want to buy. They have a number of 9mm you can rent. Hope this helps. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sixtytwo327 14 Posted March 26, 2012 First gun for a woman Easier if you start thinking about it like that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites